Tuesday, February 24, 2009

a lovely foreshadowing of things to come

I know these cute little crocuses don't stand a chance of survival, given that we still have at least a month of winter left, but it's still a welcome sight and an exciting indication of what's ahead.

We've enjoyed a couple of days of weather in the 50s and have been doing our best to take advantage while it lasts.




















I had almost forgotten how great it could be when the kids would spend all afternoon outside. Now I remember. It's really great.

birthday recap


'Tis the season for birthdays at our house, and mine came next. I turned the big 33, and felt well feted by loved ones near and far. As an adult, and in particular as a mother, on your birthday it's really your responsibility to choose to have a good attitude and to make it a good day. To that end, I did a few special things on my special day and it was indeed lovely: I got myself dressed before anyone else; I curled my hair and it wasn't even Sunday; June and I went to the creamery and got donuts for breakfast and we got a helium balloon; I made myself a Dianne salad for lunch; I took a nap in the afternoon.

Later in the evening, Scott came home and we opened some presents from him and from M&D, Laurel & Webb, and Annee,

including this lovely handmade bag (it really pays to be Annee's sister these days). Then Scott and I headed up to Sundance for dinner at the Treeroom. I can't even describe how amazing their peppersteak is. I know it's the most boring and tame thing on their menu, but seriously, it's unlike any steak you've ever had and I'm telling you the exhorbetant pricetag is definitely worth it (once a year).

Friday after bedtime Rachel & Christine picked me up and we went to the movies. (Nevermind the part about Rachel's car breaking down on the way. I suggested we could walk or take the bus but Ken came to our rescue and we did make it in time.) We saw "New in Town" which was pretty cute and funny. Do people really talk like that in the real world? Hard to believe. It was such a treat to go to the movies -- it's been so long. And I even stayed awake the whole time!

Sunday, Rachel came over and made dinner for us while we were at church.
We came home and enjoyed a scrumptious chicken pot pie casserole topped with mashed potatoes (Rachel - you should post a link to the recipe - it was fabulous), plus corn bread, broccoli, and lemonade.

Scott made an amazing yellow cake w/chocolate frosting for dessert (following Zack's 2can recipe) - my favorite!

Dinner was followed by a rousing game of Monopoly. Those who haven't played Monopoly with the Zackrisons before might not completely understand what that means. But Ken & Nate got the hang of the free parking $$, IOUs, bartering, and immunity pretty quick and after eliminating all opponents R&K duked it out to the bitter end, Ken ultimately claiming victory.

Tuesday, February 17, 2009

Birthdays, Valentines, & our dishwasher is still broken!

Can you believe it! The Dishwasher Whisperer came back last week and installed the new parts. Then he spent about 2 hours running it and watching it and talking to it to verify it was working. He concluded that it had another problem and would need another 3-5 days to order the parts again! Can I just say how much I hate washing dishes by hand! I seriously had gotten it down to where I could do a full days dishes without even getting my hands wet! Thanks to Scott, Rachel & Christine for stepping in and helping to do the dirty work.

Now on to the more important reports.

Oliver turned 6 on Friday the 13th! It proved to be a very lucky day for him indeed. In our family when I was growing up, especially as we all got older, we tended to celebrate "birthday months" since organizing and scheduling on the actual day was usually difficult. While this was fun in some ways to have continual parties and presents, it also seemed like more work for the parents to have no closure or end to the work and expectations. So I've tried to focus on the actual birth date and get everything finished that day, including class treats, friends parties, and family parties. It makes for a busy day, but at least afterwards we are done and satisfied.














So Friday morning Oliver woke up to an obstacle course, balloons & streamers. He could hardly contain his excitement and made us all get up at 7am to open presents.























Favorites included the personalized apron (although I had to promise to leave his face out of the picture for some reason), cool accessories, the Target gift card, and of course the much anticipated and frequently calculated 6 crisp $5 bills from gma & gpa. Also some new lego sets, a sticker maker, wii game, new shoes, and a new laser pen (all the rage at our house!). With presents open and Brenden off to school, it was time to focus on the friends party.
Oliver invited 6 Kindergarten-aged boys to our home to play games and eat cake. He designed every aspect of the party including what type of wrapping paper to use, exactly how the invitations and cake should look, what games to play, what goes into the goodie bags, and who gets which hotwheels car to play with. For some reason he was obsessed with the candles that would go on his cake. We bought 3 different kinds to choose from and down to the last second he switched them out and tried different ones before he could settle on a final configuration.

The theme was "drifting cars" which even now after planning the whole thing I couldn't tell you what that means. It seems to be a type of racing where the cars spin out a bit on the turns, and according to Oliver only certain types of cars can drift. He picked out "drifting cars" to use to decorate the cake and then to send home with the kids in goodie bags. He got quite annoyed with me any time I'd suggest a car that wasn't the right kind.









Scott was in charge of decorating the cake the night before and it turned out AWESOME -- way better than I ever would have done. Oliver was thrilled and his friends were very impressed!











We played Red Rover, did Time Trials, picked racing names & numbers and made stickers, played with hotwheels cars on the floor, ordered pizza, ate cake, and opened presents. The party was a success and although 6 kindergarten boys can be quite roudy and noisy, they all thankfully got along well.

Friends party done, Brenden home from school, some lego building, now on to the family party. As a member of the Brickoven Pizza kids birthday club, we invited Rachel & Christine & special guests to joins us there for dinner. Brickoven is a favorite joint since they have wandering balloon artists who will come to your table and blow and twist and create anything you can imagine. Oliver was quite excited about his eagle.
Then after dinner a portion of the group (everyone minus R&K) headed over to Color Me Mine for a little ceramics painting. Who would have known on a Friday night the place would be packed with date couples and we really should have made a reservation! But we waited and got in and had a successful time painting penguins, dogs, fish, flowers, and pirates (pictures to follow -- we go pick up the finished products tonight).












As for Valentine's Day, I love the tradition of hand-made valentines cards (inspiration here and here), am a sucker for flowers & chocolates, and love an excuse for a special night out.



But I know my husband loves me every day, and I trust he knows the same, so don't really feel like it's necessary for either of us to "prove it" all in one day. (Although maybe that's just an excuse for the fact that I was plum tired out after the above birthday celebration to do anything too special for Scott. Sorry! IOU a box of See's!) We had a special breakfast including heart-shaped blueberry-less muffins, a fun family outing to the mall, a date to the temple, and Indian take-out.


Heaven forbid getting through a whole post without a single picture of June! Her two favorite things right now: her umbrella and her pink plastic chair.

Thursday, February 5, 2009

dan dan the maytag man

Our dishwasher is on the fritz again :( so today we had Dan Dan the Maytag Man come check it out. This guy was so awesome and everything you hope a dishwasher repair guy will be. He was passionate about his job and prided himself on doing it well. I've seen enough CSI to recognize a good detective when I see one. He turned the dishwasher on and then started talking to it: "come on honey show me some clues. where are you hurt? where are you broken? ... oh that's not good. no that's not supposed to happen. alright that's enough. i'll turn you off now." I'm not kidding. He really said all of that. Then he borrowed my phone (?! -- even gave me a $2 discount for phone usage) to call it into headquarters. He actually used "alpha-whisky-charlie" when reading them the serial number. He was the real deal. If he can't fix her, there is no hope. Unfortunately it will take 3-5 working days to order the parts. Here are my choices in the mean time:

1- keep washing dishes by hand. so far this approach has not worked out so well and has resulted in gross dirty dishes piling up on the counters, followed by finally breaking down and spending hours washing & drying them
2- buy a lot of paper products and try to avoid using real dishes for a week
3- eat out

Of course my natural inclination is #3, but how does this mesh with my new year's resolution to cook for my family more. I was actually doing pretty well with that so far, but I just can't keep up with the dishes. Dilemmas.

The other dilemma I'm facing these days is what to do about this:
Brenden started working on this 500-piece puzzle a couple weeks ago, and has left it in this state on the dining room table for days now. Why won't he finish it? He goes off to school every day and leaves me at home, already admittedly bored, to face the temptation all on my own. I'm dying to work on it, but have tried to hold myself back, but it's getting to be more than I can bear. Especially when my other choices for activities are washing dishes or folding laundry (or that pesky job I do gratefully still have).

Scott's going on 2 weeks sick now. He has good days and bad days, progressing towards better (with a slight setback on Tuesday) but in the course has lost his sense of taste and hearing. Losing your sense of taste is sad when you enjoy good food, but can also be a blessing if you have some desire to lose weight. But losing your hearing is a bit more of an issue for us. He can actually hear still but says it feels like his ears are plugged all the time like when you're on an airplane. Needless to say this is a bit of a challenge for an audio engineer. Guess it's about time to find an old fashioned ear candler.


I know, I know, I'll try to tone down the excitement level next time. But hey - at least it's a new post!

Things June Likes Lately

crazy hair in the bath

putting on oliver's clothes and either his or her underwear on her head and running around like a crazy person

Saturday, January 31, 2009

i need something to blog about

Everything just seems so boring and un-blog-worthy around here these days. We are stir crazy and bored of winter and bored of it getting dark so early. We are bored of Scott being sick for a week and a half (poor guy). We are bored of watching TV and playing Wii (I use the term "we" liberally there). Bored of the daily grind.


So in search of something to do (and something to blog about) we ventured to the duck pond today. It's actually a pretty good time in the winter. For some reason it seems to be a congregating spot for ducks from all over, so it is rather overrun. Plus, it being freezing cold and all, not very many people go out to feed them, so they are extra hungry.

The end result is very aggressive birds who will snatch the bread right out of the hand of the almost-2-year-old that's feeding them. June kept yelling at them when they'd steal a big piece.

Oliver got really nervous when they'd come up close and kept reporting to me as if I should do something about it. I did -- I took pictures, kept giving June more bread, and laughed a little when they'd snip at her fingers.

Despite his protests, we had a good time and June perfected her quacking sound.

On another boring day earlier this week, we built a fort.


And what a mighty fine fort it was, if I do say so myself.

I got involved to make it strong and durable to withstand the almost-2-year-old and to mitigate the number of fights it caused (well that was the hope, anyway). Uncle Zack's favorite zip ties came in handy. The fort lived for about 3 days before Dad insisted he needed the couch back and we needed to sit on real chairs for dinner.

Apparently boredom also breeds pyromania.

Scott says it's genetic and to brace myself for all the things Brenden will burn over the next few years. I guess I should be grateful for now that it's limited to candles and small things in the snow. Needless to say this activity also makes Oliver very nervous, and he constantly reports to me what's going on and asks, "does Brenden need to be done with that now?" We did finally have to put a stop to it after using up the third butane lighter.

Of course there have been craft projects too.

This one was inspired by an episode of Fetch with Ruff Ruffman where the kids went to a shoe manufacturer and got to learn about and then try designing their own shoes. Oliver had me print out about 20 copies of this shoe sketch and has been coloring them in for days. And you probably can't tell from the picture, but the toe and heal are covered with fabric -- he tells me which color and where to put it and has me cut it out and glue it down for him.

Then you know that part of Curious George rides a bike where he's delivering newspapers and then stops by the pond and folds paper boats to float in the water? Yeah we did that today too. I helped a bit with the folding part, but it was all Oli's idea.


As a matter of record keeping...

June talks a lot these days. She says Mommy, Daddy, Oliver (Wah-wah), Yo Gabba Gabba (babababa), phone (pho), sauce (used for any sort of topping whether powder or liquid), bottle (ba), Christine (Tine), baby, nigh-nigh, pacifier (fie), what, hello, bye-bye, doggie (fa-fa), and lollypop (bap-bap). When she thinks she missed something good she'll say "wha wha wha wha wha?" until you fill her in. That can get annoying.

She is yet to come up with a repeatable word for Brenden and Rachel (please don't take this personally -- she really does love both of you!). She sings along with Yo Gabba Gabba on the parts where DJ Lance says "Yoooooooo" and "break it dooowwwwnnnn". She does funny faces to try to make people laugh. She loves daddy best during the day and mommy best at night (as in won't even look at dad or play with him or let him hold her for even a second). She plays with things in 30 second spurts - her dollhouse, tea set, babies, monster trucks, hotwheels cars, the doodlepad. She's a good climber and knows all about pushing chairs and stools around to get what she wants. She loves to play in the sink filling spoons and cups and pouring from one to the other. She has a major sweet-tooth and loves to use said chairs to sneak nestle quick straight from the container.

Thanks to all of you who are willing to indulge her constant desire to talk on the phone. I know it's boring and incomprehensible, but it really does make her so excited to have an actual person responding on the other end of the line. If anyone else out there is willing to take her calls, please let us know as we are probably wearing out our standbys.

As for New Years resolutions...
I've decided there are no more excuses and I have to buckle down and cook for my family. This week was pretty good -- 5 homemade meals, only one trip to Panda Express and one pizza order on date night. It's convenient that this resolution comes in the same year that I expressly decided not to exercise as much (you get to do that when you're pregnant, right?). Oh and about that - I'm feeling fine, thanks for asking. I'm blessed to not get sick when I'm pregnant. I've heard the heart beat and had an ultrasound to confirm there's really something in there and there's only one of them. Other than that it's been rather uneventful so far.

That's it for now. Time to put the kids to bed. Over-and-out. Adios. (Can you hear the boredom dripping from my very being?! I seriously need a project.)

Sunday, January 18, 2009

happy days

Guess what's totally thriving?!
That's right -- my lemon tree! It's covered in blossoms now and it smells soooo goood when I walk past the dining room (it's current indoor location right in front of the south-facing window).

Check out this awesome D.I. find.

To most of you this is just a weird looking cookie jar shaped like a squirrel with an unusually happy look on it's face. But to those of you "in the know" you'll recognize this as a Wiley family heirloom. Check out what's peeking out in the background of this picture from Thanksgiving (you might need to enlarge it to get the full effect):

This exact same cookie jar has sat in a place of honor on the counter in the Wiley's kitchen for as long as Scott can remember, and now we have one too! And of course a new cookie jar calls for a fresh batch of cookies, so that's always a happy day.

We're not sure why, but lately Oliver spends most of his leisure time

up-side-down

Guess it's time to sign him up for gymnastics!

Do you recognize this look? It's something we haven't seen June do in her whole 22 months on earth:


She actually sat still for a full 20 minutes and watched TV. She was completely mesmerized and engaged and so excited. We've searched for months for something to catch her attention. Brenden's old favorite Teletubbies, Oliver's old standby Max & Ruby, new girly shows like Carebears and Strawberry shortcake -- nothing worked. What was it finally that caught her eye?


Yo Gabba Gabba.
What a weird show. But also somewhat endearing. I know it's weird or backwards to be excited for your kids to watch TV, and I guess when she grows up to be a couch potato I'll look back and eat my words, but I have to say for now it's quite nice to get a 20 minute break every once in a while.

Which is all a long winded round-about way to announce our happiest news of all:

Baby #4 will join our family in August

See there's payoff in reading all the way through the post!

We were a little nervous about telling the boys, so put it off for a while, but finally today while we were hanging out before church we broke the news. They were playing and Brenden stopped and turned around and exclaimed, "What?!" and then turned back around and continued playing. That's the last we've heard about it from him all day. Oliver did an audible "hmmm" and then went about playing his game, but then came back a while later to say, "it's just that babies are so much work!" But Oliver is actually pretty baby crazy, so even though he tried to hide behind complaints and protests, we know he's actually very excited.